呼朋引伴（2021）

“Why are you being so loud?
“你是生气了吗”
“Are you mad?”
然后她会回”我没有很大声”
Then she’d say,
“I’m not being loud.”
她会写书 虚构的或者是真人真事
She wrote books,
fiction and non-fiction.
♪ When you skip-to-my-lou
♪ My darlin’
她总是会唱她小时候的老歌♥
She’s always
singing old songs
from when she was a kid.
♪ I’m gonna get ya
♪ I bet you a bottom dollar
You were best under pressure
♪ Yo, Sandy
I wanna like taste you
♪ Get your, get your lips wet
‘Cause it’s time to have Pep
♪ On yourmark, get set, go
Let me go, let me shoop ♪
在那个地方 你得…
And in that place,
you have…
她会想到很多奇怪的事情 比如鬼魂
She thought about
weird things, like ghosts
and incarnation,
all that stuff.
化身 之类的事情
她喜欢这里
She’d loved it here.
她会教课
She taught her classes.
当她压力太大的时候
When she was stressed out,
她就会给自己做一大块牛排
she would just
cook herself a big steak
然后全吃掉
and just eat it.
她喜欢和朋友们一起玩
She loved hanging out
with her friends.
她说即使我们彼此相爱
She says even though
we love each other,
她也永远不会瞭解我的一切
she’ll never know
everything about me
我也永远不会瞭解她的一切
and I’ll never know
everything about her.
人生就是这样
It’s just the way it is.
住手啦
Stop.
-呃 -你好奇怪
– Um…
– You’re weird.
好了 他想看多久手♥机♥
Okay, yeah.
Time to screen time as much
-你就让他看多久 -好
– screen time as he wants.
– Okay.
He can watch
anything he wants.
他想看多久就看多久 你看 你看 给你看
All the screen time he wants.
Here, here, here, here.
看吧 放肆看
– Yeah, give it to him.
– Here’s your screen time.
-嗯 给他吧 -可以玩手♥机♥了
你得确保自己眼皮别打架
You have to mak sure
your eyelids stay open.
好好珍惜无限手♥机♥时间
Get as much screen time
as possible.
如果他哭了什么的 就把手♥机♥收走 好吗
If he cries or anything,
no screen time, all right?
– All right.
– Yeah.
-好 -嗯
好了 你现在可以玩手♥机♥了
Okay, that was it,
that was your screen time.
-谢谢 -嗯
– Nice.
– Yeah.
幸福吗
Do you feel screenful?
超幸福
I feel screenful.
-是吧 -贼幸福
– Yeah.
– Screenish.
你觉得成年人能理解
So do you feel
like adults understand
孩子们的感受吗
what kids are going through?
我想很多妈妈可以
Um, I definitely think
lots of moms do,
因为… 我就是觉得会
because… I think they do.
我很好奇 你说过这里
I’m curious,
like, you said this was
是卡特里娜飓风中受灾最严重的地区之
one of the hardest hit areas
of Katrina,
你听说过哪些风灾的故事呢
like, what are the stories
you’ve heard?
有个人死在这房♥子里
Um,
a guy died in this house,
但我相信鬼魂是善良的
but I like to believe
that ghosts are nice
他们不会吓唬人
and they don’t try
to scare people,
除非他们是有目的的
unless that’s their intention.
跟我说说你…
Tell me about that, uh,
手臂上的纹身吧
tattoo you’ve got on your arm.
-没什么 -噢
– It is nothing.
– Oh!
他的是我…到目前为止
his is what I… I’ve learned
对德文特的瞭解
about Devante so far.
德文特说”我的事就是我的事”
Devante is like,
“My business is mine.
“那是什么”
“What’s about that?
“我现在不想谈这个”
“I don’t feel like talking
about that right now.”
“What’s the tattoo?”
“什么纹身”
“Don’t worry
about what’s the tattoo.”
“别担那纹身是什么”
你知道的 就是这种事
You know, this kinda thing.
你知道 我欣赏你哪一点吗
So, uh, you know,
what I appreciate about you?
我很欣赏你…
I appreciate the fact
that you, um…
你把这个看作是神圣的东西 对吧
You hold
what is sacred, right?
你觉得你死后会发生什么
So what do you think
happens to you after you die?
我和我妈妈都是浸信会教♥徒♥
Well,
me and my mom are Baptists.
我觉得会上天堂
Uh, well, I would say heaven,
I feel.
我不知道那会是什么样子
I don’t know
how it would be like,
但我想像的是 有草甸
but what I imagine it, uh,
I would say a meadow
一棵大树下
with a one big tree,
躺在铺满鲜花的草地上
and you just lay on the grass
with flowers
抬头看著阳光
and you just stare up
into the sun
微风徐徐
with a lot of breeze,
obviously.
不会太热
You don’t want it
to be too hot.
是啊 我也是这么想的
Yeah, that’s what
I kind of imagine.
很美好
That’s really beautiful.
你认为世界是公平的吗
Do you think
that the world is fair?
不 没有什么是真正公平的
No,
nothing’s really that fair.
可能还会有
There’s always gonna be, uh,
更多的战争
like, probably
gonna be more war,
因为如果你继续在过去的基础上
since there’s more things
to fight about
继续努力 就会有更多的事情要抗争
if you keep on building
onto what’s in the past.
是什么导致你内心氾滥
What causes
flooding within yourself,
是你的思想
within whether
it’s in your mind,
你的内心 还是你的精神
within your heart,
within your spirit?
是什么导致了你内心的崩溃
What causes
flooding, um, within you?
我觉得 不是那种
Um,
I think it would be, like,
感觉
not, like, feeling that,
就像我说的 没人在乎我或者
like I said no one cares
or, like, just feeling that
只是感觉 有时候我很弧单
I’m, like, alone sometimes.
但我知道很多孩子都在说
But I know a lot of kids
are saying,
“噢 世界要完了”之类的
“Oh, the world’s gonna end
and all that.”
我不觉得世界会毁灭
I don’t think
the world’s gonna end.
我只是觉得这个世界没有像以前
I just think the world’s
not gonna be as clean
那么乾淨了
as it used to be.
假设你的父母是你的孩子…
Say if your parents
were your children…
你想让他们学到什么
What’s something